Staying on the Upside: Affirmation #6

I haven’t pegged that goal, but am making my mark and will soon breakthrough to reveal the masterpiece of my efforts.

Staying on the Upside: Affirmation #5

I will feel happy when I see someone’s effort to block my success; It shows that they even know my potential for greatness!


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Staying on the Upside: Affirmation #4

I will no longer allow misery the privilege of my attention; Its influence will diminish and my joy will intensify.


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Staying on the Upside: Affirmation #3

My mind and soul are the toughest weapons that I possess; I will oil them with hope, love and determination to create a magnificent armor around me.


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Staying on the Upside: Backtracking Can Be Good

Occasionally, our inner-vehicle to happiness takes a wrong turn and drives us right into a muddy mindset and an unfulfilling life condition; Other times, we are just plain hijacked by external forces that get kicks out of dragging us down the “highway to hell”. In either scenario, it’s up to us to win back control– We could forge through the valley of discontent while succumbing to its quicksand grip or take a humbling approach… actually roll our wheels into reverse in order to gain a broader perspective and direct ourselves down a new trail of opportunity. Examples of this might be accepting that time invested into a relationship is no longer viable, making it necessary to move on to a healthier one (or remain a free-agent), letting go of the idea that we must keep up with “The Joneses” by having that big, fancy dream house– maybe, foreclosure is imminent and that one-bedroom apartment isn’t the worst thing in the world, after all (who likes to mow a lawn anyway?)… or taking a lower-paying job while being beyond qualified for the position; Don’t interpret these moments as failure or our running with our tails between our legs, but one more chance to grow.

There is no shame in the game of expansion.

Learn about the transformation of Michael Gates Gill who went from being an Ivy League-educated advertising executive with a six-figure-salary to becoming a barista at Starbucks and, as a result of keeping a journal of his journey, the New York Times best-selling author of “How Starbucks Saved My Life: A Son of Privilege”:


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It Would Only Make Matters Worse


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Staying on the Upside: Affirmation #2

I will continue on the road of positivity and understanding to have my wounds of past hurts heal, properly.

©2012 Heidi Rodney-Nakanishi and ChocolateGeisha Spills the Sake!™

Random Public Service Announcement

Just because we’re friends, family, acquaintances or strangers, chatting at a bar, it does NOT make it okay for you to ask how well-endowed my Japanese husband is (a hypothetical one-night-stand, friend with benefits or hot professor at school would be one thing, but my HUSBAND), solely because you want to know whether or not it’s true what “they” say about stereotypical Asian guys; For one: I haven’t screwed all of Asia, to know what ~they~ are all packing so, can’t make a valid calculation, two: There is nothing typical about my husband, and three: Your question is equivalent to one man boldly asking another to describe the “sugar walls” of his wife’s vagina only because he’s curious to know how she represents her ethnicity; I don’t think such a conversation would go over well. Get a clue, people… IT’S NONE of YOUR F!@#ING BUSINESS (no pun intended). Thank you. Now, back to your scheduled programming…


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Staying on the Upside: Affirmation #1

I will be better, stronger, and wiser than I was yesterday; The past won’t hold me down from obtaining future success.

©2012 Heidi Rodney-Nakanishi and ChocolateGeisha Spills the Sake!™

Ode to My Prince

… but I will still have my fairytale.


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